Tips on Fixing Broken
Relationship
Relationships are so
delicate and can break on minor issues and simple misunderstandings. Once
broken it is a die hard task to mend up the relationship and get back the same
intensity of affection in the relationship. There can be visible reasons may be
a misunderstanding, at times it can be a mistake of someone else, fragile
relationships can break over any simple cause.
Many relationships are
not the union of best possible matches but best available pairs, or when people
misconceive the partner so. Relationships start blindly by peripheral
understandings and attraction, it proceeds through adjustments, forgiveness and
understanding, and breakup over misunderstandings, mistakes or lack of tolerance.
Getting back into the relationship, though difficult, is possible if approached
the issues with the right understanding and mind to change and mend.
Understand the Reasons
Behind Breakup
To resolve any issue,
understanding the reasons is important. Without knowing the root cause,
relationship issues cannot be repaired. It can be a past reason which is now
absent or a still persisting reason. Analyze each stages of the relationship
and find out at which point what has gone wrong. Once the reasons of the break
up are realized, the solution may be easy. Figuring out the element that lead
to the breakup helps the partners to change it and get back into the
relationship. Experts say that the process of figuring out the reasons of
breakup can be much effective if made mutual.
Forgiving is Magical
Once the issues are dug
out, the next step is to forgive the mistakes of both the partners. If you
still hold on to the mistake committed by the partner, then it may cause
another breakup in the future. Understand why the partner committed such a
mistake and forgive him or her forever if you wish to take the relationship a
long way further. Your forgiveness may initiate a new life and new relationship
between you two. If the mistake is found to have committed by you, then be
ready to change entirely to not to repeat the action and let your partner to go
away forever, leaving no chance of a reunion.
Renew the Commitment or
Relationship
Once you are back in
track, renew the commitment and let your partner know the new resolutions and
decisions. Once you commit to be good to your partner and also to avoid
mistakes, then adhere to the commitments. Many partners get into commitments
and they forget them easily. Consistency of commitments is very much required
to keep the warmth of relationships ever remaining. It is rightly said that you
can never change the past, but possibly the future. Realize the past mistakes
and commit to not repeat them in the future.
Change Yourself
You may not be able to
change the partner as you desire, but you can very well change yourself.
Changing yourself is the better way of resolving the issues and renewing the
problems. the changes may make you appear more appealing and accepted by the
partner. You can also try to implement certain changes in the partner but if
the person is willing, then the only way is to change yourself to comply with
the partner. Changing oneself doesn't mean being submissive to the partner, but
following a better way to be in a more satisfying relationship.
Communication is the
Keystone
Most of the issues in
relationships can be resolved with right communication with the partner. It is
commonly observed that slight misunderstanding or ignore able mistakes are many
times the cause for several breakups. Approach the issues in a relationship,
positively and try to make each partners understand the real situation.
Communication means conveying the facts and truth and also offering support. Do
not try to defend or resist the arguments of the partner and accuse each other for
all the mistakes. Let the communication be creative.
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